

CHRIS GORE
Written Articles
Segments from my new upcoming book "How good is the Father, really?"
The Experience of Distance with God
The Psalms do not hide human experience. They give language to it. They bring into the open what it feels like to live in a place where God seems distant, silent, or absent, even when that is not the full reality. Instead of filtering those emotions, the Psalms record them with clarity and honesty.
In Psalm 13:1, David writes, “How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?” The language is direct. It does not soften the experience. It names it exactly as it feels. That same expression appears again in Psalm 10:1, “Why, O Lord, do you stand far away? Why do you hide yourself in times of trouble?” In both cases, God is being interpreted through the weight of the moment. What is felt becomes what is assumed to be true.
That language reaches its most intense form in Psalm 22:1, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” This is not a theological conclusion drawn from careful reflection. It is the raw expression of what distance feels like when suffering is at its peak. The words are not restrained, and they are not corrected in the moment. They are allowed to stand as they are.
This is what makes the Psalms so important. They show that the experience of distance is not new, and it is not uncommon. It has been part of the human story from the beginning. But they also show that experience is not always a reliable interpreter of reality. The same voice that says, “You are far” also declares something different when clarity returns.
In Psalm 34:18, it says, “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” And again in Psalm 145:18, “The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth.” These are not emotional reactions. They are statements about what is actually true, regardless of how it feels in the moment.
This creates a tension that runs throughout the Psalms. On one side, there is honest expression: God feels distant, hidden, or absent. On the other, there is consistent declaration: God is near. Those two are not presented as contradictions, but they are often read that way when the distinction is missed. The experience is taken as defining truth, instead of being understood as something that needs to be interpreted in light of truth.
That is where confusion begins to settle in. Because when someone feels distant from God, the language of the Psalms can appear to validate that distance. “You have hidden Your face.” “You are far away.” “You have forsaken me.” Without context, those statements can be read as descriptions of God’s posture rather than expressions of human perception.
But the Psalms themselves do not leave that interpretation unchallenged. In the very Psalm where the cry of abandonment is expressed, the conclusion moves in a different direction. Psalm 22:24 says, “For He has not despised or abhorred the affliction of the afflicted, and He has not hidden His face from him, but has heard, when he cried to Him.” The same voice that felt forsaken comes to a different understanding. What felt like distance is revealed not to be distance at all.
God had not hidden His face. The experience was real, but the interpretation was not. This is the pattern that continues throughout the Psalms. They preserve the honesty of what it feels like to walk through seasons where clarity is not present, but they do not redefine God based on those moments. Truth remains consistent, even when experience is not.
And that distinction becomes critical. Because the question is not whether people feel distant from God. The question is whether that feeling is revealing something about God, or something about the lens through which He is being seen.
The Language of Separation
The language of the Psalms expresses what distance feels like. The language of the prophets takes it a step further and begins to describe that distance in more defined terms. This is where many readers begin to form their theology, because the language sounds less emotional and more declarative.
One of the most commonly referenced passages is Isaiah 59:2, which says, “But your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden His face from you so that He does not hear.” At first glance, this appears to confirm what many already believe, that sin causes God to withdraw, that distance is something created and sustained by Him in response to human failure.
But the passage does not stand alone, and it cannot be read in isolation. Isaiah is speaking into a specific context, addressing a people whose condition has become deeply distorted. The language he uses is strong because it is confronting that distortion directly. But even within the same passage, the direction of God does not align with the assumption that He has withdrawn.
Just a few verses later, in Isaiah 59:16, it says, “He saw that there was no man, and wondered that there was no one to intercede; then His own arm brought Him salvation, and His righteousness upheld Him.” The same chapter that speaks of separation also reveals movement. God does not step back. He steps in. He does not distance Himself from the condition. He responds to it.
This is where the tension has to be held correctly. If Isaiah 59:2 is read as a final statement about God’s posture, then verse 16 creates a contradiction. But it is not a contradiction. It is a correction of how that language is meant to be understood. The separation being described is not God choosing to move away. It is the result of sin distorting the relationship to the point where it is no longer being experienced as it was intended.
The language reflects the condition of the people, not a change in the nature of God. This is consistent with what has already been established. Sin affects perception. It disrupts clarity. It reshapes how God is seen and experienced. When Isaiah says that sins have “hidden His face,” it does not mean that God has become absent. It means that the people are no longer perceiving Him rightly. The relationship has become obscured, not because God has withdrawn, but because sin has distorted the way He is being encountered.
This is why the response of God is so important. He does not affirm the distance. He moves to resolve it. His own arm brings salvation. His righteousness upholds what has been broken. The direction is always toward restoration, not away from it. Even in the strongest language of separation, the movement of God is consistent with what has been revealed from the beginning.
This pattern appears throughout the prophetic writings. The language may intensify, the descriptions may become more severe, but the direction does not change. God confronts what is broken, but He does not abandon what is broken. He addresses the condition, but He does not withdraw His presence.
This is where many interpretations begin to drift. When the language of the prophets is read without holding it alongside the full context of what God is doing, it can begin to sound like God is distancing Himself from people because of their sin. But when it is read as a whole, a different picture emerges. The language exposes the problem, but the movement of God reveals the solution.
He does not move away from what is broken. He moves toward it. And that movement becomes the defining thread that carries forward into the rest of the story. The language of the prophets introduces tension, but it does not redefine the nature of God. Even in the strongest expressions of separation, the direction of God remains consistent. He does not move away from what is broken. He moves toward it. And that movement begins to expose something that can easily be missed if the focus remains only on the language itself.
God has not changed position. This becomes clearer when the broader witness of Scripture is allowed to speak alongside the tension. The same narrative that includes statements about separation also includes repeated declarations of nearness. Not conditional nearness, not occasional nearness, but a consistent presence that does not shift based on human condition.